We call it the Blame Syndrome.
It attacks us when things don't go our way and eventually become complicated and we messed up. More often, we suddenly find reasons why have things fall the way they are now as it's part of our human nature to escape from a chaotic situation and worst we tend to use a finger to point someone causing the problem.
It's the Blame Syndrome. Instead of admitting that we have done wrong then figure out a way to make things right, we resort to this. The truth is, blaming someone will never lead to a solution. It will just make things even worse.
A poster that I saw in a particular restaurant in Palawan says it all.
So how about you? Are you free from this syndrome or does it momentarily attack you?Blame never affirms,it assaults.Blame never restores, it wounds.Blame never solves, it complicates.Blame never unites, it separates.Blame never smiles, it frowns.Blame never forgets, it remembers.Blame never forgives, it rejects.Blame never builds, it destroys.